There are two budgets — yours and the lender's.
When people ask "how much house can I afford," they are usually asking two different questions at once. One is "how big a loan will a bank give me," and the other is "how big a payment can I actually live with." Those are not the same number, and pretending they are is how buyers end up house-poor.
The 28/36 rule answers the first question with reasonable precision. The second question is personal — it depends on your goals, your taste for risk, and your tolerance for a tight month. This calculator gives you the lender's number first, then shows you what a more conservative target looks like in the comparison table below.
PITI: the four numbers in your real monthly payment.
Most calculators online give you a principal-and-interest number and stop there. That is dangerous because P&I is only part of what shows up on your statement each month. The full picture, called PITI, has four components: principal, interest, property taxes, and homeowners insurance. If the home is in an HOA, add that as a fifth line.
Why this matters: in many parts of the US, taxes and insurance together can be a third of the total monthly payment. A buyer who budgets only for P&I is going to be unpleasantly surprised the first month their escrow account gets funded. This calculator does the math the way underwriting does it — taxes, insurance, and HOA come off the top before the loan is sized.
Front-end DTI vs. back-end DTI, plain English.
Front-end DTI is the ratio of just your housing payment to your gross monthly income. The traditional cap is 28%. Back-end DTI is the ratio of all your monthly debt payments — housing plus cars, student loans, credit card minimums, everything — to your gross income. The traditional cap is 36%.
The lender uses whichever cap binds. If you have no other debt, you will usually hit the front-end cap first. If you carry a car loan and student loans, the back-end cap almost always binds first, and that is when buyers are surprised by how much the existing debt has eaten into their home budget. The calculator shows you which one binds.
The house-poor trap is real, and it is recent.
Buying near the top of your approved range used to be more forgiving because rates were low and incomes generally grew faster than total cost. In 2026, neither of those things is reliably true. Property taxes have re-set higher in many states, insurance premiums have risen sharply, and rates are well above the 2021 lows. The "stretch a little" advice from a decade ago no longer ages well.
Practical rule: if hitting your maximum approved price means you cannot also fund retirement contributions, keep an emergency fund, and absorb a single bad month, you are looking at too much house. Take the conservative number in the comparison table seriously.
Before you commit, run this checklist.
- You have 3 to 6 months of expenses in a liquid emergency fund, separate from the down payment.
- Your back-end DTI at the target price is comfortably under 36%, ideally under 33%.
- You have budgeted at least 1% of home value per year for maintenance and repairs.
- You have a real, written quote for homeowners insurance — not a guess — for the target neighborhood.
- You have looked up the exact property tax rate, not the state average.
- If your down payment is under 20%, you have included PMI in your monthly cost expectation.
- You are not relying on bonuses, side income, or a partner's job change to make the payment work.